{"id":3166,"date":"2019-05-14T15:01:19","date_gmt":"2019-05-14T20:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/?p=3166"},"modified":"2019-05-14T15:01:19","modified_gmt":"2019-05-14T20:01:19","slug":"i-quit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/i-quit\/","title":{"rendered":"I Quit."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-3168\" src=\"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-240x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-200x250.png 200w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-240x300.png 240w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-400x501.png 400w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-600x751.png 600w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-768x962.png 768w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-800x1002.png 800w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-818x1024.png 818w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful-1200x1503.png 1200w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/gratitude-grateful.png 1533w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/>Inspired by a random video (see it at the bottom of this post) I saw on Facebook of Steve Harvey sharing about the secret of using gratitude, I told my personal journey of the past several months. More than a week later. that same post was still garnering comments and reactions, so I felt compelled to share it here, too. This is what I wrote:<\/p>\n<hr>\n<p>My closest friends know at the end of last year, continuing through to the first couple of months of this year I went through a dark and depressed time with my work. After nearly 13 years of entrepreneurship, I quit it all. Stopped working. Full stop. Wrote a resume. Started looking for a job (gasp).<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-3167\" src=\"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-229x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"229\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-200x262.png 200w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-229x300.png 229w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-400x525.png 400w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-600x787.png 600w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-768x1008.png 768w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-780x1024.png 780w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-800x1050.png 800w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover-1200x1575.png 1200w, https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Daily_Business_3D_cover.png 1710w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 229px) 100vw, 229px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Through that process, I realized my unique skill set, professional experiences, and the way I have structured my life created a situation where it was very challenging to find a<span class=\"text_exposed_show\">ny single \u201cjob\u201d where I felt I could live and work in my own genius and be paid a salary in line with what I could bring to the table.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"text_exposed_show\">\n<p>So I had to dig myself out of that deep hole and create a new business. Prayer and gratitude were a huge part of that for me. I pulled out my own <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2Vl0hyg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Daily Business Meeting with God Journal<\/a> and started again.<\/p>\n<p>But this time I started differently. I thought about all the things I was doing and how I want to spend my days &#8211; and what I didn\u2019t want to do anymore. Life is not a dress rehearsal&#8230; this is it.<\/p>\n<p>So I did exactly what Steve Harvey shares here. I made that long, long list of all the amazing people and blessings I have in my life. And then I made a list of what I want in my life. I worked with a dear friend closely on changing some long-held, deeply rooted limiting beliefs and destructive patterns.<\/p>\n<p>If you would have told me 5 months ago my work would be completely transformed into what it is today, I wouldn\u2019t have believed you.<\/p>\n<p>I went from what felt like a never-ending treadmill of product creation, affiliate promotions, email launches, endless sales pages, and constant \u201cscurrying,\u201d to the ease, grace, and joy of working with only a very few high-level clients doing intensive work with them. That has freed up my mind to unleash my creativity again and I\u2019m now writing and ideas are flowing.<\/p>\n<p>My speaking is different, too. I\u2019ve always hit the stage with confidence and was well-received, but this most recent time, I had different, more powerful testimonials. Two weeks later, two different people stood up in a different room each proclaiming how my talk helped and impacted them&#8230; I was amazed.<\/p>\n<p>I knew someday I\u2019d share this personal story. I didn\u2019t know when I woke up this morning today would be the day until I saw <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/SteveHarveytv\/videos\/409458743189407\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">this video<\/a>. So I\u2019ll end with the wise words from this surprising source:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cGratitude erases all negativity because there\u2019s no room for negativity. It\u2019s not a magic trick. Joy and depression cannot reside in the same space.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGratitude changes your perception. Your perception changes your existence.\u201d &#8211; Steve Harvey<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FSteveHarveytv%2Fvideos%2F409458743189407%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=560\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Inspired by a random video (see it at the bottom of this post) I saw on Facebook of Steve Harvey [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[135,323,17],"tags":[52,516,112],"class_list":["post-3166","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-micro-business","category-personal","category-success","tag-felicia-slattery","tag-gratitude-and-small-business","tag-solo-professionals"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7rYyu-P4","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3166","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3166"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3166\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3171,"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3166\/revisions\/3171"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3166"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3166"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/feliciaslattery.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3166"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}