I Wrote This Post in My Underwear (And Other Nonsense)

I Wrote This Post in My Underwear (And Other Nonsense)

2014-10-30T16:42:57+00:00 By |Public speaking|1 Comment

picture them in their underwearThe terrible advice is everywhere.

“Picture them in their underwear.” Um, no.

“Picture them doing something demeaning like scrubbing the toilet.” Really?

“Picture them naked.” Gross.

All of the above is nonsense and ridiculous advice I’ve heard at one time or another on how to get past a fear of public speaking.

When I pull it out of context like I did in the title of this post, well, you can see the ludicrousness of telling people to imagine others in their underwear, and so forth.

Those who don’t know any better are well-meaning. They are trying to help. The idea, of course, is that theoretically, anyway, when you picture your audience members in a compromising or less-than-powerful position, you supposedly feel more powerful, and therefore better and less afraid.

Hogwash.

You know what makes you feel more powerful? BEING more powerful in your own knowledge of what you can do for others. KNOWING that what you do for people, that your message, can truly change someone’s life for the better, whether in a tiny way or in a HUGE way.

If you are sure that you offer value to people who pay you, if you have happy customers, and if you know speaking is a powerful way to spread your message and attract new soon-to-be happy customers so you can help them with your God-given talents, but have felt held back because of fear, I invite you to a webinar I’m calling, “Get Over It! (Your Fear of Speaking.)”

Tomorrow is Halloween. There is no more perfect day to address something that feels scary, but that you still want to do – and GET OVER IT once and for all.

Now, I can’t promise that by listening to a webinar you can immediately conquer your fears forever on the spot so you are never afraid at all of speaking again (and be skeptical of anyone who says they can – that’s some pretty hypey stuff), but I CAN help you look at your fear in a different way. I CAN motivate you and inspire you to help the people who NEED you. And, just as importantly, I can give you PROVEN techniques that have worked for the thousands of people I have taught them to over the years.

People come to me privately all the time to ask for this kind of help. I want to help you, too, so you no longer have to listen to wacko advice about picturing people in their undies. Sheesh. Here the long link to join the webinar:

http://feliciaslattery.com/get-over-it-your-fear-of-speaking/

Tell all your fraidy cat friends, too! We’ll have some fun and maybe banish that fraidy cat feeling and empower you to speak!

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  1. Umamaheshwaran October 31, 2014 at 12:25 pm - Reply

    Madam,
    I am happy to register for further guidance. I am already doing as an assistant to a writer. But I am getting more confidence with your letters and guidance to writer furtherly in ezine. So, I thank you for your guidance.

    with regards,
    R.Umamaheshwaran

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